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In Emotional Bullshit, clinical psychologist Dr. Carl Alasko explores how denial, delusion, and blame—the Toxic Trio—create a hidden yet pervasive force that undermines personal and professional relationships. Drawing on two decades of private practice and case studies, he explains how everyday lies and excuses degrade trust and distances people. Alasko shows that this destructive dynamic is present in commerce, politics, and everyday conversation, yet most people remain unaware of its impact. By identifying the patterns of Emotional Bullshit, the book offers practical tools for recognizing the cycle and taking steps to break free, ultimately helping readers protect and strengthen their interpersonal bonds.
First publish date: 2008
Genre: Psychology/Social Psychology
Authors: Carl Alasko
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