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Andrea Askowitz opens her life to readers in a brutally honest pictorial account of the 40 weeks and five days that defined her existence as a single lesbian mother. From the upheaval of hormones to a strained relationship with her own body, she magnifies how cultural expectations and personal doubts collide. The memoir traces her decision to self‑exile from family support, and the unexpected kindness of strangers, as she chronicles her attempt to reconcile a missing love while raising an infant. With a darkly humorous, self‑deprecating style, Askowitz turns her own misery into a voice that is both profoundly moving and shockingly witty.
First publish date: 2008
Genre: Memoir/Personal Memoir
Authors: Andrea Askowitz
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