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In *You’re Not from Around Here, Are You*, Louise A. Blum draws from her own experiences as a pregnant, openly lesbian woman in a rural Appalachian town. The memoir chronicles her romance with local partner Connie, their decision to live openly together, and the complex reactions—from prayer vigils to newspaper features—that their love and pregnancy elicit. Written with humor and sharp observation, Blum offers a nuanced portrayal of small‑town America’s comforts and tensions, while celebrating resilience and the power of authenticity. The book serves as both a personal testament and a broader reflection on the challenges and joys of being LGBTQ+ in a conservative rural environment.
First publish date: 2001
Genre: Memoir/Personal Memoir
Authors: Louise A. Blum
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