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Alison Bechdel returns to her past in a graphic memoir that examines the complex bond with her mother, a voracious reader, passionate music fan, and secretive gay artist whose distant affection shaped Bechdel’s upbringing. Through insightful panels, the narrative weaves in psychoanalytic ideas, literary allusions, and Bechdel’s own adult romantic life, culminating in a fragile reconciliation that resonated with many adult children of gifted parents.
First publish date: 2012
Genre: Comics & Graphic Novels/Graphic Memoir
Authors: Alison Bechdel
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