Books like Self-control by Stig Sæterbakken


The second volume in Stig Sæterbakken’s “S Trilogy,” Self-Control explores the consequences of a husband’s sudden loss of self-control after a seemingly trivial action. Andreas Feldt, a middle-aged man struggling with codependent marriage, feels unable to communicate with his adult daughter over lunch. When he announces he's going to get a divorce on an inexplicable whim, the family’s world crumbles around them. The family’s world falls apart, leaving Andreas adrift and forced to navigate through a society where it seems virtually everyone is only one loss of self-control away from an explosion of dissatisfaction and rage.
First publish date: 2012
Genre: Family & Domestic Fiction/Marriage & Divorce Fiction
Authors: Stig Sæterbakken
★ ★ ★ ★ ★ 0.0 (0 community ratings)

Self-control by Stig Sæterbakken

How are these books recommended?

The books recommended for Self-control by Stig Sæterbakken are shaped by reader interaction. Votes on how closely books relate, user ratings, and community comments all help refine these recommendations and highlight books readers genuinely find similar in theme, ideas, and overall reading experience.


Have you read any of these books?
Your votes, ratings, and comments help improve recommendations and make it easier for other readers to discover books they’ll enjoy.

Books similar to Self-control (16 similar books)

Atomic Habits by 11797737|James Clear book cover

📘 Atomic Habits

Atomic Habits by James Clear presents a practical framework for building good habits, breaking bad ones, and mastering tiny behaviors that lead to remarkable results.

★★★★★★★★★★ 4.0 (1046 ratings)
Similar? ✓ Yes 0 ✗ No 0
Deep Work by 7145896|Cal Newport book cover

📘 Deep Work

Deep Work shows how focused, distraction-free effort is a rare yet essential skill for achieving superior results and genuine fulfillment in today’s fast‑paced economy.

★★★★★★★★★★ 3.8 (150 ratings)
Similar? ✓ Yes 0 ✗ No 0
The Power of Habit by 11345987|Charles Duhigg book cover

📘 The Power of Habit

The Power of Habit shows how tiny habits shape our lives and how they can be transformed to achieve personal and organizational success.

★★★★★★★★★★ 4.0 (105 ratings)
Similar? ✓ Yes 0 ✗ No 0
Mastery by 6699473|Robert Greene book cover

📘 Mastery

A guide to achieving personal greatness, Robert Greene argues that success is a skill mastered through disciplined practice and strategic learning.

★★★★★★★★★★ 3.9 (30 ratings)
Similar? ✓ Yes 0 ✗ No 0
Grit by 11782900|Angela Duckworth book cover

📘 Grit

Grit shows that success depends more on passion, perseverance, self‑control and determination than on talent or luck; Angela Duckworth’s research explains how these qualities can be cultivated to achieve excellence.

★★★★★★★★★★ 3.6 (21 ratings)
Similar? ✓ Yes 0 ✗ No 0
Behind closed doors by 11759038|B.A. Paris book cover

📘 Behind closed doors
 by B.A. Paris

A suspenseful look inside the seemingly perfect marriage of Jack and Grace, where love, secrecy, and abuse mask a household of hidden violence.

★★★★★★★★★★ 3.5 (15 ratings)
Similar? ✓ Yes 0 ✗ No 0
The Road to Character by 4264637|David Brooks book cover

📘 The Road to Character

David Brooks examines the shift from external accolades to internal virtues, using historical leaders to show how humility, self‑discipline, and moral depth guide true character and life fulfillment.

★★★★★★★★★★ 3.4 (9 ratings)
Similar? ✓ Yes 0 ✗ No 0
Susannah's Garden by 6622282|Debbie Macomber book cover

📘 Susannah's Garden

Susannah Nelson, 50, returns to the garden she loved as a teenager, but the past she's trying to escape is still there, leading her to question everything about her life and relationships with her loved ones.

★★★★★★★★★★ 4.6 (7 ratings)
Similar? ✓ Yes 0 ✗ No 0
Angle of repose by 7294914|Wallace Stegner book cover

📘 Angle of repose

In "Angle of Repose," Wallace Stegner follows wheelchair‑bound retired historian Lyman Ward as he researches his grandparents’ pioneering life on the American West, uncovering truths that reshape his own story.

★★★★★★★★★★ 3.5 (4 ratings)
Similar? ✓ Yes 0 ✗ No 0
Discipline and Punish by 8650831|Michel Foucault book cover

📘 Discipline and Punish

Michel Foucault’s seminal work traces the evolution of punishment and surveillance, revealing how modern societies exercise power through disciplinary institutions such as prisons, schools, and hospitals.

★★★★★★★★★★ 3.8 (4 ratings)
Similar? ✓ Yes 0 ✗ No 0
The marshmallow test by 12743025|Walter Mischel book cover

📘 The marshmallow test

Psychologist Walter Mischel explains how to master self‑control, drawing on his famed marshmallow experiment and showing its life‑shaping implications, from academics to health and decision‑making.

★★★★★★★★★★ 4.5 (2 ratings)
Similar? ✓ Yes 0 ✗ No 0
Voices in Summer by 6531002|Rosamunde Pilcher book cover

📘 Voices in Summer

After marrying into a West Cornwall family, Laura Haveerstock finds herself alone at the Tremenheere estate, where the summer landscape and its inhabitants help her confront her doubts and discover the hidden depths of her heart.

★★★★★★★★★★ 4.0 (2 ratings)
Similar? ✓ Yes 0 ✗ No 0
Silver Wedding / The Lilac Bus by 6457405|Maeve Binchy book cover

📘 Silver Wedding / The Lilac Bus

A collection of portraits of people celebrating silver wedding anniversaries, set against an Irish backdrop.

★★★★★★★★★★ 4.0 (2 ratings)
Similar? ✓ Yes 0 ✗ No 0
Resisting happiness by 9708706|Matthew Kelly book cover

📘 Resisting happiness

Matthew Kelly explores how self-sabotage limits true happiness and offers practical steps to open oneself to God’s grace, revealing the transformative impact of surrendering control and embracing divine guidance.

★★★★★★★★★★ 0.0 (0 ratings)
Similar? ✓ Yes 0 ✗ No 0
Vinegar Hill by 6252477|A. Manette Ansay book cover

📘 Vinegar Hill

In 1972, Ellen Grier returns to her Midwestern hometown and lives with her devout Catholic in‑laws, where strict faith and family expectations clash with her own desire for freedom and self‑determination.

★★★★★★★★★★ 0.0 (0 ratings)
Similar? ✓ Yes 0 ✗ No 0
Unequal Marriage by 12489728|Emma Tennant book cover

📘 Unequal Marriage


★★★★★★★★★★ 0.0 (0 ratings)
Similar? ✓ Yes 0 ✗ No 0

Some Other Similar Books

Willpower: Rediscovering the Greatest Human Strength by Roy F. Baumeister and John Tierney

Have a similar book in mind? Let others know!

Please login to submit books!