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Samra Habib’s memoir follows her journey from growing up as part of a vulnerable sect in Pakistan to arriving in Canada as a refugee. After escaping an arranged marriage at sixteen and later recognizing her queer identity, Habib faces continued feelings of otherness. Her story spans global experiences as she seeks truth and acceptance, highlighting the possibility for Muslims to embrace queer sexuality and for families to evolve. The book serves as a testament to forgiveness, freedom, and the courage of living authentically.
First publish date: 2019
Genre: Memoir/Personal Memoir
Authors: Samra Habib
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