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In the Dream House is Carmen Maria Machado’s deeply personal memoir about a chaotic relationship with a charismatic but volatile partner. The book examines the mechanics and cultural representations of psychological abuse, and how that experience shaped Machado’s identity. Each chapter is framed by a distinct narrative trope—such as the haunted house, erotica, or bildungsroman—to illuminate the events from multiple angles. Machado also reflects on her religious upbringing, the myth of safe queer relationships, and broader histories of abuse within LGBTQ communities, while interspersing essayistic digressions that cast doubt on familiar tropes and classic media. Through wit, playfulness, and critical inquiry, the memoir expands the possibilities of memoir writing and interrogates our assumptions about love and trauma.
First publish date: 2019
Genre: Memoir/Personal Memoir
Authors: Carmen Maria Machado
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