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Hooking Up or Holding Out offers a fresh perspective on mate selection and self‑improvement for men and women alike. It teaches readers when to pursue immediate sex and when to hold off to preserve attraction, emphasizing authenticity over outdated tactics. The guide covers setting personal standards, managing unsolicited advances, and cultivating healthy, passionate relationships while enjoying a fulfilling sex life.
First publish date: 2006
Genre: Self-Help & Personal Development/Relationships & Communication
Authors: Jamie Callan
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