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Based on psychological research and real‑world observation, The Rules presents a clear set of dos and don’ts tailored for women who want to attract the right partner and build a lasting, committed relationship. The book explains how men are decisive in their desires, how a man’s attraction is binary, and why a challenge is essential in a romance. By adopting these commonsense guidelines, women can maintain self‑respect and dignity while encouraging men to do the same. The Rules also promotes a balanced life, encouraging readers to pursue personal goals outside of romance, and provides disciplined strategies for navigating early encounters. Ultimately, the aim is to achieve meaningful marriage with a partner who loves the reader fully and reciprocally.
First publish date: 1995
Genre: Psychology/Social Psychology
Authors: Ellen Fein
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