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Harriet Goldhor Lerner’s *The Dance of Deception* examines the everyday ways women deceive themselves and others, often to protect relationships or maintain appearance. Drawing on psychology, the book discusses the impact of lying, silence, and pretense on intimacy, authenticity, and creative expression. Lerner offers insight into when honesty can hurt and when strategic vulnerability can reveal a deeper truth, guiding readers toward healthier communication and self‑understanding.
First publish date: February 28, 1994
Genre: Psychology/Social Psychology
Authors: Harriet Goldhor Lerner
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