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In his memoir, celebrated actor Alan Cumming recounts a childhood marred by an emotionally and physically abusive father, uncovering long‑hidden family secrets during a televised genealogy program that traced his maternal grandfather, a WWII hero who disappeared in the Far East. He weaves Scottish childhood memories with his modern career, offering insight and candid reflection on trauma, family, and the search for identity. Interlaced with humor and wit, the book provides a vivid portrait of the man behind the fame and the struggles that shaped him.
First publish date: 2014
Genre: Memoir/Personal Memoir
Authors: Alan Cumming
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