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From age four to eighteen, Sue William Silverman endured repeated sexual abuse at the hands of her father, a high‑ranking government official and successful banker. The book lays bare the daily reality of her suffering and the family’s complicity—particularly her mother’s quiet silence in the face of clear distress. Silverman shows how this abuse remained unreported, undetected, and unconfessed, allowing the abuse to persist for years. The narrative explores the internal dynamics of a family in crisis and how the trauma continued to shape her thoughts, emotions, and decisions well into adulthood.
First publish date: 1996
Genre: Memoir/Personal Memoir
Authors: Sue William Silverman
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