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Stephanie Coontz’s "The Way We Never Were" surveys two centuries of family life in the United States, challenging the myths that have shaped modern family expectations. In its new introduction, Coontz reflects on key cultural events that occurred since the 1992 publication—such as political scandals and high school shootings—and reexamines how these events continue to influence the American public’s longing for a time that never existed.
First publish date: 1992
Genre: History/Modern History
Authors: Stephanie Coontz
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