Books like Adjustment and personality by Richard S. Lazarus

Running counter to society's current prevailing message that things should always run smoothly--or, at least, appear to--and that failure or mistakes of any sort are to be avoided at all costs, The Gift of Adversity shows that such setbacks are inevitable. Indeed, engaging with our own failures and defeats is one of the only ways we are able to live authentic and meaningful lives. The book illuminates how each different type of setback carries its own challenges and has the potential to yield its own form of wisdom. Using stories from his own life--including his childhood in apartheid-era South Africa, his years after suffering a violent attack from a stranger, and his career as a psychiatrist--as well as case studies and discussions with well-known figures such as Viktor Frankl and David Lynch, Rosenthal reveals that true innovation, emotional resilience, wisdom, and dignity can only come from confronting and understanding the adversity we have experienced.

PART I: Background 1. About Emotion2. Issues of Research, Classification, and MeasurementPART II: The Cognitive-Motivational-Relational Theory 3. The Person-Environment Relationship, Motivation, and Coping4. Cognition and Emotion5. Issues of CausalityPART III: Individual Emotions 6. Goal-Incongruent (Negative) Emotions7. Goal-Congruent (Positive) and Problematic EmotionsPART IV: Emotional Development 8. Individual Development9. Social InfluencePART V: Practical Applications 10. Emotions and Health11. Implications for Research, Assessment, Treatment, and Prevention