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In 'The Intimacy Factor', Pia Mellody—renowned for her work on codependence and love addiction—shares insights gained over 20 years as a counselor at the Meadows Treatment Center in Arizona. Drawing on contemporary research and real-life examples, she explores the common reasons intimate relationships falter, many rooted in early childhood experiences. The book provides evidence‑based strategies and exercises that help readers identify faulty patterns, heal from past wounds, and establish healthy, sustaining connections in romantic and family relationships.
First publish date: 2003
Genre: Psychology/Social Psychology
Authors: Pia Mellody
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