Books like Talk to Me Like I'm Someone You Love by Nancy Dreyfus


"Talk to Me Like I'm Someone You Love" is a nonfiction guide developed by psychotherapist Nancy Dreyfus, whose decades of couples counseling informed its innovative approach. The spiral‑bound book contains over a hundred brief statements—such as taking responsibility, apologizing, and expressing affection—that partners can use in real situations to shift power dynamics, reduce conflict, and foster genuine connection. Designed as a conversational aid, it empowers married couples and couples therapy clients to say the words they need but struggle to articulate, encouraging clearer communication and relationship healing.
First publish date: 1994
Genre: Psychology/General Psychology
Authors: Nancy Dreyfus
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