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In The Betrayal Bond, Patrick Carnes delivers a comprehensive analysis of how exploitative relationships—ranging from domestic abuse to workplace mistreatment and religious abuse—form enduring trauma bonds. He explains why such bonds arise, identifies who is most vulnerable, and provides a clear checklist for detecting them. The book concludes with practical steps for safely extricating oneself from these harmful connections, offering continued insight for anyone affected and a handy reference for professionals dealing with abuse cases.
First publish date: 1997
Genre: Psychology/Social Psychology
Authors: Patrick Carnes
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