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Author: Esther Perel

In "The State of Affairs," Esther Perel argues that infidelity, far from being an isolated sin, reveals the underlying expectations, desires, and cultural norms that shape modern marriages. Drawing on decades of work with couples worldwide, she combines real‑life case studies with psychological and cultural analysis to answer questions such as why people cheat even in seemingly happy marriages, what infidelity really means, and whether an affair can ever heal or strengthen a relationship. Perel invites readers to view the affair not merely as betrayal but as a revealing window into the heart, offering a daring framework for understanding the complexities of love and desire in contemporary society.

First publish date: 2017

Genre: Self-Help & Personal Development/Relationships & Communication

Authors: Esther Perel

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