Books like Dress Codes by Noelle Howey


Noelle Howey’s debut follows a teenage girl in suburban Ohio as she struggles to connect with a distant father and idolize her protective mother and conservative grandmother. At 14, she learns a startling family secret: her father wears women’s clothing, a revelation that forces the family to confront their assumptions about gender and affection. Through humor, sensitivity, and courage, the narrative examines how gender expression can reshape relationships and reveals a newfound tenderness between father and daughter. The novel invites readers to rethink traditional family dynamics and gender roles.
First publish date: 2002
Genre: LGBTQ+ Fiction/Transgender Fiction
Authors: Noelle Howey
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