Books like The need to please by Micki Fine


The Need to Please offers a practical guide for chronic people‑pleasers, blending mindfulness with therapeutic insight to help readers confront fears of failure, inappropriate self‑sacrifice, loss of personal identity, and a compulsive need for approval. The book provides compassionate, evidence‑based techniques to foster healthy boundaries, reduce codependent behaviors, and cultivate a stronger sense of self. By encouraging readers to say “no” to unreasonable demands and affirm their own needs, it supports lasting change in interpersonal relationships.
First publish date: 2013
Genre: Self-Help & Personal Development/Relationships & Communication
Authors: Micki Fine
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