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In the third edition of a landmark collection, 34 lesbian writers recount the challenges and triumphs of disclosing their sexuality to their mothers. They discuss family relationships, community and religious attitudes, bisexuality, transgender experiences, and the generational ripple effects of coming out. The voices range from intimate personal narratives to broader analyses of LGBTQ parenting and intergenerational connection, offering insight into the realities of having a "different daughter."
First publish date: 1987
Genre: LGBTQ+ Fiction/Lesbian Fiction
Authors: Louise Rafkin
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