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Surpassing the Love of Men presents a rigorous examination of 500 years of friendship and romantic affection between women. Drawing on diverse sources—from Henry James’s writings to early twentieth‑century periodicals—the book traces how ideas about female sexuality have evolved over time. It provides a comprehensive historical perspective that has earned critical acclaim, including the Lambda Literary Award.
First publish date: 1981
Genre: History/Modern History
Authors: Lillian Faderman
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