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The End of Manhood examines how men often act as if split in two—driven by social expectations and the need to validate each other’s masculinity. Stoltenberg critiques the pursuit of a "deep masculinity" myth and argues that true manhood requires confronting gender justice, sexuality, and personal responsibility. Through candid analysis, lively wit, and step‑by‑step guidance, the book encourages men to choose authentic self‑hood over societal myths, offering practical insights for love, family, and friendship. Its final chapters confront sexual objectification, male bonding, homophobia, and pornography, culminating in a vision of human self‑actualization that invites both men and women to reconsider traditional gender roles.
First publish date: 1993
Genre: Psychology/Social Psychology
Authors: John Stoltenberg
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