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J.R. Moehringer grew up chasing a missing father’s voice, only to find guidance in a bustling New York bar that served as a sanctuary for a mosaic of men—cops, poets, gamblers, and more. The bar’s colorful patrons, from a Bogart‑looking uncle to a war hero turned horse trainer, become a family by committee, shaping the boy’s sense of masculinity and belonging. As he navigates the challenges of Yale, a stint in retail, and a bittersweet role at The New York Times, the bar remains a safe haven against failure and rejection until it finally turns its back on him. In this evocative memoir, Moehringer reflects on self‑invention, the elusive search for fatherhood, and the lingering fragility of those who never fully grow up.
First publish date: 2001
Genre: Biography & Autobiography/Autobiography
Authors: J. R. Moehringer
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