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At twelve, sisters of spirit, Kate and Marylin begin middle school as inseparable best friends. Marylin’s new enthusiasm for student government and cheerleading pulls her into a popular circle, while Kate quietly nurtures a passion for guitar and songwriting. As their interests diverge, the two girls encounter new friendships—both with girls and boys—that test and ultimately strengthen their bond. Set against the backdrop of a typical middle‑school environment, the story explores how adolescent passions, leadership roles, and creative pursuits can reshape long‑standing friendships.
First publish date: 2009
Genre: Children's Fiction/Early Readers
Authors: Frances O'Roark Dowell
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