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Is It Love or Is It Addiction? guides readers through the complex terrain of emotional attachment, clarifying the difference between longing and compulsive love. Drawing on years of feedback and new research, the book explains the biological roots of addictive behaviors, the role of technology in modern intimacy, and the impact of past abuse and trauma. Through real‑life case studies and actionable strategies, it equips readers to recognize unhealthy patterns, build self‑awareness, and nurture sustainable, wholesome relationships.
First publish date: 1987
Genre: Psychology/Social Psychology
Authors: Brenda Schaeffer
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