Books like I can't date Jesus by Michael Arceneaux


In I Can't Date Jesus, Michael Arceneaux shares a series of essays that blend humor, candor, and thoughtful reflection on what it feels like to grow up as a creative, sensitive Black gay man in contemporary America. The book traces his path from childhood in Houston, Texas, to the moment he came out to his mother, and details the challenges he faced in embracing his identity against a backdrop of prejudice and misrepresentation. Arceneaux’s essays confront bigotry, highlight the unique voices of people of color within the LGBTQ community, and celebrate the resilience required to live authentically in a divisive world.
First publish date: 2018
Genre: Biography & Autobiography/Autobiography
Authors: Michael Arceneaux
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