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He Comes Next, written by renowned sex therapist Ian Kerner, explores the nature of male desire and offers practical, evidence‑based techniques designed to help women understand what turns men on and keeps them engaged. The book examines common patterns that can dull sexual excitement and provides clear, actionable advice to reinvigorate a couple’s sex life. With Kerner’s witty, accessible style, He Comes Next provides a comprehensive, step‑by‑step roadmap to achieving mutual pleasure and deeper connection. Drawing from years of therapy practice, Kerner addresses the most frequently asked questions women have about male sexuality, emphasizing communication, confidence, and understanding of sexual identity as keys to a satisfying intimate relationship.
First publish date: 2006
Genre: Self-Help & Personal Development/Relationships & Communication
Authors: Ian Kerner
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