Books like I never asked you to understand me by Barthe DeClements
In "I Never Asked You to Understand Me," two teenage girls enroll at an alternative high school designed for students facing personal challenges. Their complicated family relationships deteriorate, driving each girl to confront the limits of their resilience as they navigate friendship, school pressures, and the struggle for understanding.
First publish date: 1986
Genre: Children's Fiction/Early Readers
Authors: Barthe DeClements
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