Books like Back When We Were Grownups by Anne Tyler
Back When We Were Grownups follows a 53‑year‑old woman who confronts a midlife crisis while reminiscing about the time she married a widower at 19. He owned a sprawling house and ran a business, and together they raised his three daughters. The novel delves into domestic life, social customs, and the psychological search for identity and personal fulfillment that comes with aging and change.
First publish date: 2001
Genre: Psychological Fiction/Character-Driven Fiction
Authors: Anne Tyler
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